Sunday, 5 August 2012

"Amity-Friendship-Goodwill-Yo-Yo"

Hey my readers,

Call it a matter of chance that I finally get some time to liberate the balloons of my thoughts regarding 'Friends, and Friendship' right on this 'Friendship Day'. Well just like we keep meeting new people in our lives, there are times when I feel like asking myself, "Is this person my new friend"? :o) And the answer to this ever-happening question is NOT always a 'Yes'. Here, I try to socialize my thoughts on what I think friends are.
‘VROOM-VROOM-VROOM…’  Did you get this sound? Here my thoughts’ bike is being picked up.  :D


1.)    Like the name suggests, a friend is the one who remains with you, like a guard, like a companion, and let me mention this one too, like a ‘Friend.’:D. Outside your home, he is a torch of your life. Right!

2.)    Even if you don’t utter a word, the friend knows what’s going in your mind. He can listen to those whistles which you missed to ‘broadcast’ and he tries to add music to each song of your life. Isn't it so! :o)

3.)    I believe that two friends actually have a single wallet. I have seen a hundred times ( or may be less than a hundred times, :P ) good friends getting split over the issues regarding money. At least I find it unfair. This world is being pampered with the butter of money. And the same is turning out to be unhealthy for its relationships. No?

4.)    Friends are always there when they need you. But friends are never there when you need them. Is it so? It’s better to float alone in this ocean than being with those ‘Junk-bags’. Well okay, life is to bestow care and help; this all only makes life worthy. But the definition of friendship would get distorted with such kind of people around. Let’s cease to call them friends. :o)

5.)    Your friend is your own existence. This is one original thought that exhilarates my brain and soul both. Yes, I mean it plainly. If you feel happy in your friend’s comforts, you are as lucky as is your friend. While composing this point, I’m like getting jam-packed with very blissful vibes. While reading this, are you too? :o)

6.)    I find no charm in ‘Give and Take’ relationships. There is no room for friendship in this kind of barter. How far can two good friends travel together, if they keep counting the number of times they got obliged by the other one? Call it a healthy business or no matter what, but not amity please!

7.) If you feel the need of clarifying things to your friends, you are certainly driving your car on the wrong side. A dangerous ride can't guarantee a happy journey. Are you getting the point?

8.)    And yes, this point is the last one from my side for the day, but not the least! He too is a human. And he as well needs compassion at times. He has also got his share of sweet and sour times. He might fail to say someday, but he too needs your shoulder to rest upon. Don’t go so busy collecting all the honey of empathy, that you start neglecting his fraction. Okay, even if it is not a give-and-take one, but it certainly is two-sided. May be some of his songs are in the wait of a tap of melody from your side!

And here, I’m really God’s favorite, I know. Having got so many good friends who care for me, and who are there for me, I feel so comforted. :o) Take this as a note of thankfulness. 

If this feeble attempt of mine brings a curvy smile on your face, my friend, I’d consider myself as a good friend. And I anticipate that smile there actually. :P Oh! I'm such an optimistic fellow! :D :D

Here, Happy Friendship Day, buddies! Yo-Yo! :D

Timsy Mehta. 





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